how to move with people!

though people say that your best buddies should always be different from you most comfortable language,food,hobbys and gender. we tend to have differnces even with the
people who are not very different from your core behaviours. however its very difficult to coordinate or move with the people causually. its the very basic fact that
human beings are born with the very bad habbit called "Ego" though few say i dont have ego, they actually introducing ego right at that place. on ther upper hand if you
dont have ego sometimes it become useless to live in the society. so its important that we balance and strike them right.
Given the fact that we knew the other person going to think differently and observe differently how do you approach them? is it okay to shy away from people? or is even possible?
in a way is it even possible to have right mind set in the crowd. after the delivery even the relationship between mother and daugther goes by trust, so how do we live with the
right people in a understadble way?
Believe in very basic fact people are not going to change just like that. digest the fact that each person go their own mindset and way of thinking even if its your own
son or sister.
to have a positive envornment its safe to standbehind and leave the other people the way they are and just give them options they have to choose. if they choose the one which
you believe is right then be happy with it, if its otherwise just dont even take it to heart. But please register in mind so you can adjust your thoughts for the person differently
next time.
Understand that you cant have people around you with the disagreements in your thought. however you can people who are very different from you but they dont have to agree/accept
all you belive is important and good.